I am really interested in learning how to get my ex back. I thought that I was getting too serious with him and wanted to go have some fun. The excitement of dating someone new was something I thought I wanted. I think part of it is that all of my girlfriends are single. They go out with this guy to the movies, have a great dinner later in the week with another guy, and then go dancing at the clubs and meet new guys all the time.

 

Toss in that my guy likes to come over, watch TV with me, we make dinner, and we talk for a while and I was getting jealous. I told him we needed a break from each other, but the grass wasn’t greener on the other side. I realize now he is an exceptional guy and that no one can compare to him. It isn’t just his smile but the generosity of his personality. He would do anything to help me or someone else, and there aren’t too many people that kind in this world.

 

Part of how to get my ex back is to be upfront and let him know all of this. It came out of left field in his eyes for me to ask for a break. We get along great, and he was really hurt. If I want him back, I have to explain to him why I wanted to let go in the first place. It won’t be easy, but he deserves to hear the truth about it from me. I want it all out there for him to learn about the hard truth I have found in my own choices.

 

I think this is how to get my ex back, because otherwise he won’t trust me. He will always be wondering when I might drop such a bomb on him once again. I am going to come straight out and ask him to please take me back. I am going to tell him all the wonderful qualities that he possesses that make me adore him.

 

I plan to treat him like a king to let him know that I really am sorry for what I put him through. I feel really shallow and heartless looking back on it. I just had that itch to try something new and to do what my girlfriends were doing. It wasn’t until I let him go that they confided in me that they wished they had a great guy like I did that they could do things with on a regular basis.

 

Part of how to get my ex back also involves making our relationship fun again instead of routine. I am going to put more effort into dressing up for him for a great night out. I am going to plan great dinners, spend more time talking to him, and even take up some of the great hobbies he is so passionate about.

 

He has been asking me for a very long time to go hiking with him, and I always make up an excuse. Perhaps a nice hike with a picnic lunch is just what we need. This can be part of my strategy for how to get my ex back. I certainly don’t want to spend any more time without him!